"just my thoughts man
right or wrong
just what i was feeling at the time..."
•jay-z
adults in romantic relationships aren't devastated when they fall victim to infidelity. sure. that shit hurts. it's my argument that once those initial feels of betrayal and the 'why me's' fade and the desire to slash some fucking tires has subsided..... what people are MOST often left with is this:
disappointment
that THEY didn't cheat first.
folks drive themselves mad thinking, not about how they've been wronged....
no no. instead you're remembering all the chances YOU had to fuck up but didn't.
twisted, right
so. in a world of engagements.... "it's complicated'ness" and matrimony... complete with love (read: lust) , understanding (read: tolerance) , and joint bank accounts (read: dependence) ....
where we're often encouraged to be SELFLESS while somehow managing (above all) to look out for self...
what's a person to do ?
•well...
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Glad to see you are back writing. Hope all is well.
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